🌿There’s a moment before every interview, the liminal space between “I hope they like me” and “I’m ready”. This is where your nervous system decides the tone of the entire day.
☕️Eva understood this better than most PMHNPs ever will.
She knew rituals aren’t superstition. They’re regulation.
The truth is, even the most seasoned PMHNPs walk into interviews carrying invisible noise:
the fear of being judged, the memory of a past burnout, the pressure of wanting to prove yourself.
Letting that run unchecked means you show up fragmented. Your nervous system on high alert, your affect unsoftened, your presence harder than you mean for it to be.
Ritual brings you back.
Here’s the simple version and the one that works on your biochemistry, not your wishful thinking:
1. Arrive in the area 15 minutes early.
Not to sit in the lobby like a statue but to breathe, walk, and let your body catch up to your mind.
2. Do a grounding sweep.
Feet on the floor.
Shoulders softened.
Breath low, not high in the chest.
Everything in you saying: I’m here. I’m safe. I’m ready.
3. Sip water like you have time.
Slow sips send a parasympathetic cue: you’re not rushing, and you’re not threatened.
4. Review your folder, not your fears.
A clean padfolio, 3 resumes to hand out, a working pen, sends the message (to them and to you) that you’re prepared.
5. Enter the building 10 minutes before.
This sweet spot communicates presence without desperation. You really cannot show up late and expect an offer,
😰 Bonus: What if my voice cracks? Here is a tip public speakers use all the time. If you’re worried your voice might crack, tighten, or “cut out” in the first few seconds of introducing yourself, use this tiny reset:
Take one short nasal only inhale. Just a sip of air right before your first word.
Why it works:
A small nasal only inhale activates the vagal brake, stabilizing vocal cords and smoothing phonation. Public speakers use this trick constantly; PMHNPs should too.
It tells your body, “We’re safe. You can speak normally.”
Think of it as a micro-ritual:
a subtle reset that steadies the voice, softens your affect, and brings you back into the moment.
These rituals aren’t theatrics.
They’re signals to your nervous system, the same one your clients unconsciously read.
Interview performance isn’t just skill.
It’s self-regulation.
✨Walk in calm, and the rest of you follows.
🔥 Next issue, we’re diving into the question that can tank your interview in seconds and the way to turn it into your power moment instead.
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